Archive for April, 2010

Judgement Both Ways? Women Want a Break!

Posted in Highest Self Esteem, Naptural Esteem, self-development with tags , , , on April 16, 2010 by nappymuse

The history behind a people explain the present and foretell a future.  All women have been scrutinized from the beginning of time. Why?  Because we are the doors of life.  Black women have been criticized even more by others, each other and worst by self.

Our men struggle to uplift us and fall short by comparing what we do to other races.  JAYLOVE47 talks about self hate in black women.  He believes that black women are the only women that alter their appearance.  Even my straight hair sisters are more natural than some other races.  For example:  more white women get plastic surgery than any other race.  In Asia, it is popular to extend their eye lids.  Though Loreal is one of the biggest largest distributors of perms made for white women and bought by white women, black women are said to be ashamed of who they are over a perm and/or weave.  JAYLOVE47 and many others don’t understand that it is deeper than and isolated decision and not limited to black women.

In the 1700’s the corset dress came out so that white women could mimic the small waist and very large buttocks of Saartie Baartman.   Women of all ages (or time periods) have tried to conform to the lust of what men want to see in that age.  Black women are not the only ones.  Take a look at  Saartjie “Sarah” Baartman, the Hottentot Venus.

Black women, you are beautiful whatever you decide to do with your hair.  You have been poked and prodded long enough.


7 Tips to Attract Love

Posted in Uncategorized on April 14, 2010 by nappymuse

1) Stop focusing on having someone.  It’s OK to desire a lover.  It’s not OK to live for a lover.

2. Open your eyes to the infinite possibilities and miracles of life.  Broaden your scope of life.  Tunnel vision only cause you to accept the first thing coming without expectations or standards.

3. Follow your passions.  Pursue the things that make you feel good; that thing you can do all day until sun down.  People are drawn to passionate people.

4. Find your rhythm.  Search for the music inside you; your soul’s song.  And walk proud to it.  People are attracted to music, both silent and audible.

5. Don’t worship worship your own opinion.  Be open to learn infinitely, grow, explore life,  love, and a new experience.  Be in the moment when you taste something for the first time,  see  something for the first time.  Expect the desires of your heart.  But do not concern your self with, nor try to control how.

6.  Treat your self to a laugh.

7. Start living now.  Do not wait for one kind of love to live. Learn to love yourself and appreciate all those that already love you; and soak in that love and live.

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NaPpYMuseTV Live on Facebook? What is that?

Posted in Uncategorized on April 13, 2010 by nappymuse

NappyMuseTV Live On Facebook is a growing live vBlog.  NappyMuseTV show/webchat is a cross between The View and a Neo-Soul Lounge and TMZ. You are basically hanging out, but the focus is on you.  The more you comment on everything the better and the more exposure you get.  We love humor, so don’t feel like you can’t be you even for a little bit.  Feel free to disagree, agree an expound on something. However, we are a positive show/webchat and we are a profanity free show/webchat, because we have teens as members.

NappyMuseTV was a vision that came on Christmas 2009. In less than a month, NappyMuse was born, 1/18/2010. Very quickly the NappyMuse Community has spread worldwide. We have members in Japan, Switzerland, UK, Africa, Canada, and the USA. We are only getting larger. Click here and join everything by going to our website. We have a lot of plans for you.

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